How to Write Authentically

Authentic writing isn’t about using big words or sounding like someone else.

It’s about writing like how you actually talk.

The best writing feels like a conversation that invokes a warm feeling in the reader.

It should feel like the writer is being real, honest, and not trying to impress — just trying to express.

But here’s the thing: most people struggle with this because they’re trying too hard to “sound smart” or “be professional.” They overthink every word, edit every sentence, and kill their own voice in the process.

So how do you actually write authentically?

Here’s the cheat code I’ve learned (and used every day): Start by speaking.

Literally.

Open your Notes app or voice recorder and talk out your idea as if you were texting your best friend. Don’t worry about grammar or structure yet — just say what you mean. Then go back, clean it up a little, and shape it into a post, essay, or tweet.

And here’s the bonus tip that changed everything for me: Write from your scars, not your wounds.

When you’ve processed something, even just a little, your reflection hits harder.

It’s honest, but not venting. It’s vulnerable, but grounded.

The more reps you get, the more your voice sharpens. The goal isn’t to write perfectly — it’s to write truthfully.

So next time you sit down to write, don’t ask:

“What should I say to sound smart?”

Ask:

“What would I say if I wasn’t afraid to be seen?

That’s where authenticity lives.

This is the 9th installment in my project of publishing a mini essay every day to achieve 100 public pieces. Check out the full list here, and the previous letter here.

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